My Paltalk blog

[dylan874]

http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=16418376&blogID=381974237

Just some thoughts on something that happened recently. I'm not trying to start drama, but I just wanted to state my case for the record. I don't know if anything is being said about me behind my back. I haven't been on as much this week, so I haven't really talked to anyone about it. I've posted a few bulletins on MySpace to let people know the blog is out there, but so far I haven't gotten much response. Please keep in mind that I still have to approve your comments, so choose your words carefully if you want me to approve them.

Oh, and btw my new screen name on Paltalk is dylan874. I'm thinking of starting a new account here, so both names match. I know I don't have many posts here, so it wouldn't be a big deal to lose them.

[paulisded]

I read that last night,and was wondering who the female is.

[Flea_Man]

We need names.

[BOLLOCKS]

Please dont name names on here... I dont want it to turn into some kind of pissing match.

Blogs are great for venting frustrations so bravo for dealing with it the adult way and not dragging it into a room to be picked over by the vultures.

The thing Ive learnt recently (that i wish Id learnt a long time ago) is that there are far too many people on there, far too many potential friends, to worry about the few that act like cunts and cause trouble.

[Brooklyn Ace]

We need names.

Wow I think this is a first I agree with flea

Please dont name names on here... I dont want it to turn into some kind of pissing match.

Blogs are great for venting frustrations so bravo for dealing with it the adult way and not dragging it into a room to be picked over by the vultures.

dont listen to her she's a limey

[BOLLOCKS]

dont listen to her she's a limey

BITE ME!!!

[Brooklyn Ace]

BITE ME!!!

anytime babe anytime

[BOLLOCKS]

mwah! ;)

[dylan874]

I read that last night,and was wondering who the female is.

I'd love to give you a clue, but I'm not sure if I want to yet. I want to give it some time. I'm sure she'll get the word of what I wrote soon enough. Granted, she did delete me from her friends, but the blog is open to everyone to read, not just my friends. Life is too short to worry about people acting so shallow. If she never talks to me again, so be it.

[dylan874]

We need names.

Ha! I know how people can't keep secrets. I wanna give this a few days and see how things play out first.

[dylan874]

Please dont name names on here... I dont want it to turn into some kind of pissing match.

Blogs are great for venting frustrations so bravo for dealing with it the adult way and not dragging it into a room to be picked over by the vultures.

The thing Ive learnt recently (that i wish Id learnt a long time ago) is that there are far too many people on there, far too many potential friends, to worry about the few that act like cunts and cause trouble.

Wow. Well said. Thank you.

[dylan874]

Wow I think this is a first I agree with flea



dont listen to her she's a limey

Well, I know how well secrets are kept sometimes. Oooof. I can't name names just yet. Secondly, I happen to like what she said.

[paulisded]

You should just pm me the names involved, and maybe I can give you some insight.

Seriously. Not the usual bs I babble.

[Wickedballs]

I think names should be named.

:stirpot: :gossip: :popcorn:

[TheTruth]

http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=16418376&blogID=381974237

Just some thoughts on something that happened recently. I'm not trying to start drama, but I just wanted to state my case for the record. I don't know if anything is being said about me behind my back. I haven't been on as much this week, so I haven't really talked to anyone about it. I've posted a few bulletins on MySpace to let people know the blog is out there, but so far I haven't gotten much response. Please keep in mind that I still have to approve your comments, so choose your words carefully if you want me to approve them.

Oh, and btw my new screen name on Paltalk is dylan874. I'm thinking of starting a new account here, so both names match. I know I don't have many posts here, so it wouldn't be a big deal to lose them.

You say you don't want to start drama yet you are calling everyones attention ot it on here and you are calling attention to yourself by posting bulletins about it on MySpace. You clearly are just trying to call attention to yourself. Not starting drama means to keep it private, or even if you must post a blog about it you don't beg people to go read it.

[thebailey5]

I read your blog, and I can somewhat relate to what you are saying. I don't know exactly what happened, because I most likely wasn't there, but I can tell you this. Although I don't know you, and again, I really do not know the whole situation, personally there are a lot of people I think are my friends, and some days, they don't say anything to me. I tell them hi, etc, and I get nothing in return. It used to hurt my feelings, but then it got to the point where I just got used to it, plus I don't think at any time those people responded to me, it was on purpose. They probably weren't paying attention in the room. Most people on here are great people, I can't say why she wasn't responding to your ims, but reading your blog, you seem like a sensitive person, and there is nothing wrong with being that way. You just can't let people on here get to you like that. I know who my "true" friends are on here, and I know the ones that I would consider acquantices or vice versa. Some people do seem to have the whole popularity contest, but not all people on here are like that. If I see you in the room, I will talk to you:). Im Bailey the ASSKISSER. Hardy har har, but seriously I try to be nice and talk to everyone. So keep your chin up, and I hope things get better.

[paulisded]

Sometimes, Lynn, people are working and aren't paying attention to the text. Or they may be in a PM and not see your hello.

[thebailey5]

Sometimes, Lynn, people are working and aren't paying attention to the text. Or they may be in a PM and not see your hello.

I tell them hi, etc, and I get nothing in return. It used to hurt my feelings, but then it got to the point where I just got used to it, plus I don't think at any time those people did not respond to me, was on purpose. They probably weren't paying attention in the room.

Which is why Scott, I put what I put in this statement.

[ChrisOBX]

Dylan,
My advice to you is to take the high road and drop it.
Don't name names, don't let this grow into anything more than it already has.

Take it from me:
Everyone listens to the popular girl's side. EVERYONE.
You cannot win.

I'm not joking here.
The situation that you are describing isn't one miniscule FRACTION as bad as the grief I have taken - and am continuing to take - from someone I used to be VERY close to - who has spent weeks slandering my name to anyone who will listen - FOR THINGS I DIDN'T EVEN DO.
(and some of you know who I'm talking about, and yeah, sorry, I'm not the monster I've been called...and unlike her, I actually have people and facts to back me up)

If I try to discuss matters quietly with her (which I have done VERY FEW TIMES), I'm called a stalker...if I try to call her out publicly, I'd look like an ass, and quite frankly, I'd feel like one, which is why I haven't and will not do so.

Personal laundry should stay personal. It's called "being a grown-up".
If she won't talk to you about it one-on-one, then drop it. Things will only escalate by dishing it out in public.

You cannot win.
Cut your losses.

You made a mistake, just drop it and eventually everyone will forget. If you continue to make an issue out of it, she'll make an issue out of it, and again - YOU CANNOT WIN AGAINST A POPULAR GIRL IN PALTALK.

[TheTruth]

Dylan,
My advice to you is to take the high road and drop it.
Don't name names, don't let this grow into anything more than it already has.

Take it from me:
Everyone listens to the popular girl's side. EVERYONE.
You cannot win.

I'm not joking here.
The situation that you are describing isn't one miniscule FRACTION as bad as the grief I have taken - and am continuing to take - from someone I used to be VERY close to - who has spent weeks slandering my name to anyone who will listen - FOR THINGS I DIDN'T EVEN DO.
(and some of you know who I'm talking about, and yeah, sorry, I'm not the monster I've been called...and unlike her, I actually have people and facts to back me up)

If I try to discuss matters quietly with her (which I have done VERY FEW TIMES), I'm called a stalker...if I try to call her out publicly, I'd look like an ass, and quite frankly, I'd feel like one, which is why I haven't and will not do so.

Personal laundry should stay personal. It's called "being a grown-up".
If she won't talk to you about it one-on-one, then drop it. Things will only escalate by dishing it out in public.

You cannot win.
Cut your losses.

You made a mistake, just drop it and eventually everyone will forget. If you continue to make an issue out of it, she'll make an issue out of it, and again - YOU CANNOT WIN AGAINST A POPULAR GIRL IN PALTALK.

From what he wrote he talked to the girl for 2 weeks before this incident. Now whether that was 2 weeks of talking in depth everyday or just sporadically which I'm guess it was it was just a casual acquaintance. Then the night in question Dylan got drunk when she didn't respond to him started getting pissy for not getting attention and proceeded to make it worse by calling her out in the room. This isn’t a case of taking the “popular girls” side, but I could see how it creped her out, someone that she barely knew demanding attention. He isn’t losing a lifelong friend, he wasn’t treated unfairly by an admin, he needs to stop being a baby and a creep by calling further attention to it.

[Flea_Man]

I'm an asshole but I try and be funny. Dunno :-/

[ChrisOBX]

From what he wrote he talked to the girl for 2 weeks before this incident. Now whether that was 2 weeks of talking in depth everyday or just sporadically which I'm guess it was it was just a casual acquaintance. Then the night in question Dylan got drunk when she didn't respond to him started getting pissy for not getting attention and proceeded to make it worse by calling her out in the room. This isn’t a case of taking the “popular girls” side, but I could see how it creped her out, someone that she barely knew demanding attention. He isn’t losing a lifelong friend, he wasn’t treated unfairly by an admin, he needs to stop being a baby and a creep by calling further attention to it.

I agree...
My point was simply that he should drop it...I guess I got too much off on my own tangent there.
Things will only get worse by continuing to make an issue out of it, and naming names would just be childish.
Just let it drop Dylan...

[Lee-Mels]

I think names should be named.

:stirpot: :gossip: :popcorn:

:qft: Talk Dylan Talk , you obviously want her to know your mad, who is it?

[michael]

http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=16418376&blogID=381974237

Just some thoughts on something that happened recently. I'm not trying to start drama, but I just wanted to state my case for the record. I don't know if anything is being said about me behind my back. I haven't been on as much this week, so I haven't really talked to anyone about it. I've posted a few bulletins on MySpace to let people know the blog is out there, but so far I haven't gotten much response. Please keep in mind that I still have to approve your comments, so choose your words carefully if you want me to approve them.

Oh, and btw my new screen name on Paltalk is dylan874. I'm thinking of starting a new account here, so both names match. I know I don't have many posts here, so it wouldn't be a big deal to lose them.

Do you really live in Ocean View, DE? My folks have a house there, couldn't imagine being there year round.

Oh yeah, I haven't read your blog yet, but I think its time to start naming names. The drama you didn't want to start is about to begin.

[michael]

I read the blog, and now I want to know more then ever.

[ChrisOBX]

Hey, I'm not gonna lie, I'd love to know who it is too...
But seriously dude, you're making an issue out of being ignored by a girl you hardly know?
Being deleted from her myspace?
For real??!?!

When that shit happens after you've actually dated her for a couple of weeks, or been intimate with her, or been involved emotionally with her, it's an issue.....and EVEN THEN, you don't post shit on the internet about it...you're supposed to outgrow that when you leave junior high.

Too many people are dumping private drama out into public forums...bashing other people in blogs, copy/pasting private conversations, posting naked pics of exes, etc...

It's just fucking retarded.

[Carolina Chick]

Im so glad to see that PT hasnt changed. :sarcasmmeter::rolleyes:.....but I do miss you assholes! KISSES!

[VaMessenger]

Hai Lori :tacklehug:

[thebailey5]

Hey, I'm not gonna lie, I'd love to know who it is too...
But seriously dude, you're making an issue out of being ignored by a girl you hardly know?
Being deleted from her myspace?
For real??!?!

When that shit happens after you've actually dated her for a couple of weeks, or been intimate with her, or been involved emotionally with her, it's an issue.....and EVEN THEN, you don't post shit on the internet about it...you're supposed to outgrow that when you leave junior high.

Too many people are dumping private drama out into public forums...bashing other people in blogs, copy/pasting private conversations, posting naked pics of exes, etc...

It's just fucking retarded.


I agree, and now that I know more about the situation, it shouldn't of ever been brought up here. I have posted things on here, but its just been rants, and wanting to get my friends opinions on things, but seriously dude, I think you made things a lot worse by making the choice you did. I said in my previous post, I understand the feelings perspective, but it should of been dealt with a lot differently then how you decided to do it.

[VaMessenger]

This thread is fucking retarded!!! OK..you got ignored and wrote a blog. Why would you post it here other then to draw attention to the situation and yourself. Who gives a shit if someone ignored you. It happens. Get over it and stop trying to make people feel sorry for you.

P.S. - Give us a name!!!!!!

[dylan874]

Do you really live in Ocean View, DE? My folks have a house there, couldn't imagine being there year round.

I grew up in this area. I lived in Salisbury for a while when I was growing up, and I went to high school there. I just moved back here a few years ago.

[dylan874]

I agree...
My point was simply that he should drop it...I guess I got too much off on my own tangent there.
Things will only get worse by continuing to make an issue out of it, and naming names would just be childish.
Just let it drop Dylan...

I am letting it drop, especially after the pounding I've taken here already. I see all of everyone's points and some of this shit is just going in circles with the same points being made.

[dylan874]

This thread is fucking retarded!!! OK..you got ignored and wrote a blog. Why would you post it here other then to draw attention to the situation and yourself. Who gives a shit if someone ignored you. It happens. Get over it and stop trying to make people feel sorry for you.

P.S. - Give us a name!!!!!!

I know it's retarded, Wes. I'm sorry I started this shit to begin with. I don't care if the thread gets deleted now.

[Lee-Mels]

I know it's retarded, Wes. I'm sorry I started this shit to begin with. I don't care if the thread gets deleted now.

Sorry we don't delete threads here @ :rgf:,we move them sometimes, but not delete them.

[dylan874]

:qft: Talk Dylan Talk , you obviously want her to know your mad, who is it?

I'm not mad. I'm just frustrated that I fucked up the friendship we had over some stupid shit that happened that night. I have to learn from my mistakes and move on now. I'm not talking about it any more in public now. I'm fucking done with it.

[dylan874]

lol we don't delete threads here @ :rgf: sorry bro

I know this, Lee. Were you really taking me seriously?

[billburrsucs]

This thread is fucking retarded!!! OK..you got ignored and wrote a blog. Why would you post it here other then to draw attention to the situation and yourself. Who gives a shit if someone ignored you. It happens. Get over it and stop trying to make people feel sorry for you.

P.S. - Give us a name!!!!!!

This thread is retarded? are you going to go off on a tangent about not having an XM show today?